A lot of parents shy away from taking a vacation with an infant or toddler for the mere fact of thinking it won't be an enjoyable experience.  Won't in be too stressful traveling with a toddler? Why spend all the money when you can't even do everything?  Why put yourself through the stress?  Wait until they're older they all say - they're too little to remember it.  In fact, in preparing to plan our first vacation with our daughter, a co-worker pretty much thought I was crazy. Well, I have the magic secret to making it the best experience possible....